i must be a magnet

I don't know why but I seem to always, I mean ALWAYS attract selfish friends. I have to have surgery because I have a TUMOR and my best friend is only worried about her own situation. Yes, she's having a baby but she has other people to help her and I don't. I'm sorry I can't watch your son because I'm having a life threatening ordeal going on in my life. I'm sorry that my husband is pretty much assured on a time frame on when to come home and yours isn't but could you at least be a little more considerate for God's sake? Why can't you understand what I'm going through and be here for me instead of only worrying about yourself? I just don't get it, I really don't.